Lately, things just ain't what they used to be

And I don't know why

Why you're not the ma you used to be

In the beginning you were so good to me

You made love seem like it came so naturally

But now you've changed and it's so plain to see

That you're not the man that you used to be

In the midnight hour, I long for your touch

Waiting for you to come home, oh

I would miss you so much

Now you don't come by

And you don't call me no more

Have your feelings changes

I'm not sure what you're looking for

"Cause baby it hurts like hell to think that you don't

Want to be here in my arms

And at times have you found somebody better than me

'Cause you're not the man

You're not the man that you used to be

You're not the man to take care of me

You're not the man that loved me constantly

But I understand that you're just a man

That you can't be the man for me

I remember the times when I was so lonely

But never, ever again now I have found peace

I found a new friend who knows how to hold me

Someone who understands that I'm all he needs

Not it feels so good to know that he wants to be

Here in my arms

And at times, he's the man that you used to be

That you used to be

You're not the man, you're not the man

That took care of me

You're not the man, you're not the man

That loved me constantly

But I understand that you're just a man

That you can't be the man for me

I just don't know why things have changed

Between you and me

But that's alright baby, 'cause I found someone to love me

You're not the man, don't worry about me

You're not the man