Uncle KJ gotta talk to ya'll kids 

Listen up quick cause the way some ya'll live 

Must have lost ya mind and just flipped ya lid 

Now ladies I know what he be telling you 

I know cause back in the day I used to do it too 

Talking about aww girl you know I love you 

And if love me too then let me sleep wiht you ooh 

He's a fool a lying scheming dude 

I'm a tell ya straight girl now cut him loose 

Why ain't no guy that cute 

If he won't respect for you and won't wait for you 

See you need a real man that loves God too 

And will take a stand even if it's hard to 

And I know that you can now it's worth it for you 

Check the program this is what i'm telling you 



ooohh ya'll better check yo self, nah ya'll need to check yo self 

un uh ya better check yo self, no ya'll better just respect yo self 



Where my fellas at where my fellas at? 

Now some of ya'll need to check where ya head is at 

I know in the locker room what they be talling cats 

Don't buy into that now when they selling that 

Virgin ain't a dirty word don't be ashamed of that 

See in reality people be respecting that 

Stand up for yourself tell em just chill with that 

And even if they diss turn around and bless em back 

Let em talk smack and leave it at that 

Cause everybody ain't doin it now just learn that facts 

Don't never let somebody ever hold ya back 

Nobody except God should ever tell ya how to act 

It's God saying that cause peeps won't tell ya that 

But it's the truth and I'll never back down from that 

So if ya can ya handle that and like the sound of that 

Then people halla back on the track if ya down with that 



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Ladies and gentlemen ya need to stop playing 

Stop running around always missionary dating 

You think that the one you're loving you gonna be saving 

But end up with problems from the choice ya making 

Now some ya'll girls ya'll need to start caring 

And think twice about all these clothes that ya wearing 

I know it might be nice to have all the guys staring 

But take advice respect yourself as a woman 

We all want love and we all want attention 

But that ain't the way to get it you understand what I'm saying? 

With the baby gap outfit on that ya wearing 

Sneaking out the house trying to hide from ya parents 

See God said save yourself for ya marriage 

And it was for a reason don't misunderstand it 

Sex is a beautiful gift don't mishandle it 

Ya better check yourself and don't damage it