[1st Verse:]

I know a lot of women gonna hate it

but, somebody's gotta say it

And so I nominated myself to deliver the news

that its hard for a man to choose a lady

that already got a baby

Although his feelings may be strong

Having kids that don't belong to him

holding on to him somehow seems wrong to him

Exposing them to a man who may one day decide

he's tired of the family life

And now he's gotta tell that little girl a goodbye lie

when he's the only Dad she's ever had in her life

I don't wanna take that chance please don't take offense

it's just the thought of hurting somebody that was innocent 



[Chorus:]

She got kids

And I don't know if I'm ready to give

Them the things that they need to live

'Cause if we become more than just friends what I do for her I gotta do for them kids

She got kids

And I just wanna make sure this is

more than just some sexual trip

See all I wanna do is prevent those kids from getting hurt again 



[2nd Verse:]

Most men think it but they'll never say it

but what if ya'll had another baby

And he's accused of choosing favorites, and they're right

Would he be wrong for loving his own flesh and blood a little more

Is he being human or only being immature

who's to say

that's why it's better just to wait

take love day to day

and let love spread its own wings

and if it wants to fly away or if it decides to stay

it wont be because of any unrealistic expectations ya'll done made

and he wont have to pray that little girl ain't awake

when he tiptoe out the door so he won't have to explain

I don't wanna take that chance please don't take offense

I just don't need that kinda drama on my conscience

Ohhh ooooo



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