Is that a girl, or is that a boy
Do they play with dolls or do they play with toys
I have to know the pink or blue, 

The pink or blue now
How will people think of you, if they don't know how

Girl or boy, girl or boy?
Is that a lady or is that a man
Times have changed and lines are blurred
And I don't understand
I have to get a grip of this
It's bowing my mind
I am not a lesbian, but God she looks fine
Girl or boy, girl or boy
But God she looks fine
Girl or boy, girl or boy

Hanging over someone's crib while they're waiting
To grow to be one or the other, 
Living to please and to please their mother
And I hope we can grow to see that everybody is unique
And I know they told us when we were kids
But we forget it cause they also said
Don't be a pussy to the boy who cried
And they also said to the girl who fought
That's not very lady like
Well we gotta know who decides it
Do you or do I?
Who decides it?
Do you or I?

Girl or boy, girl or boy, girl or boy
Girl or boy, girl or boy, girl or boy