you don't wanna talk to me 
you don't even look at me 
when we kiss and say goodnight 
you do your thing and fall asleep 
you don't care if it makes me weep 
all through the night 

and I'm crying out your name 
but for you it's all the same 
if I'm here or filling up the space around you 
you just ignore me 
you never show me 
what's the matter with you 

if this is what love is 
if this is how we kiss 
you better leave me on my own 
if this is how it feels 
if this is what it is 
I don't wanna know 
I'd rather be alone 
Ooh 
if this is what love is 

you have a meeting after work 
you behave like a jerk 
when you tell and sell your lies 
is this a phase you're going through 
until you've found someone new? 
shall I close my eyes? 

and I'm standing in the dark 
and I'm left without a spark 
you hide between these walls you built around you 
you just annoy me 
you just enjoyed me 
as long as I pleased you 

if this is what love is 
if this is how we kiss 
you better leave me on my own 
if this is how it feels 
if this is what it is 
I don't wanna know 
I'd rather be alone 
Ooh 
if this is what love is 

and I'm crying in my sleep 
for all the secrets that you keep 
and all the things that I have said 
are just silent in your head 
I wonder who you are 
You're acting so bizarre 
what's the matter with you? 

You don't wanna talk to me 
You don't even look at me 
when we kiss and say goodnight 

if this is what love is 
if this is how we kiss 
you better leave me on my own 
if this is how it feels 
if this is what it is 
I don't wanna know 
I'd rather be alone 
… 
Ooh 
if this is what love is

© music/lyrics by Yanah & Eric Geurts