You're what we call a ''commitmentophobe.'' Whether it's because you fear letting someone into your life or that you're scared of getting hurt or that you're just not sure that there isn't a better out there, settling down with one person practically gives you hives. Whatever the reason, it's important to get to the root of the problem and solve it. Giving a part of yourself to someone else in a relationship certainly is intense, but if you're with the right person, you're likely to gain more than you'll lose.